14th Jul 2012 10:42am | By Rebecca Kent
A job in nannying is for the energetic and the enthusiastic
There’s a lot to be said for working with children, because nannies have job satisfaction in spades. Liking kids is obviously vital, and, of course, they have to like you, but once you’ve established that, all you need is the right attitude. TNT gets the lowdown.
Nannying is like working in a school, but without the paperwork, says Ternille Dewey, 31, who arrived in the UK from Australia in September.
She wanted a job that allowed her to be social, but gave up bar work after one month when she realised nannying paid better.
“I was a primary school teacher back home, so it was a natural progression, but I didn’t want to do the same thing,” Dewey says.
“As a nanny I can have one-on-one time with children, and instead of writing reports and doing activities written into a curriculum, we can do such things as bake a cake, just for the fun of it.”
Dewey is a ‘daily’ nanny, travelling Roehampton to Putney to work from 7.30am to 7pm, looking after three kids, aged eight, six and three.
Monday to Friday, she gets them to school, cooks and cleans, and picks them up in the afternoon, before getting them off to their after-school activities, or mucking around with them herself. She feeds them and has them in bed by the time mum and dad get home.
“The parents don’t expect me to go above and beyond,” she says. “They just want me to make sure their kids are cared for, eating well and having fun. I feel like I’m living in a home away from home, and I absolutely love it.”
Between chores, and looking after three kids (15, 13 and nine) in Kensington, Richard Barclay, 31, runs the male nanny agency, Manny Poppins.
Good male nannies are rare, he says. “About one out of every 10 guys I see, I actually give a job to, and it’s the lads from New Zealand or Australia who get them,” he says.
“It’s just the way they carry themselves in the interviews. They’ve got the right attitude, and they’re confident and sporty.”
You don’t need qualifications to work as a nanny, but experience with kids is favoured.
You can work either as a live-in or live-out nanny, or work before and after school, during holidays, ad-hoc, or do proxy-parenting – having 24-hour responsibility for the kids when the parents aren’t around.
“The hours can be long, but the pay is good,” Barclay says. “Some mannies can get between £500 to £1000 a week. I know a guy who does just two hours each morning and that’s his job.”
There are also the perks that come from working with a wealthy family. Barclay, who has mannied for 10 years, once had a holiday for him and his girlfriend paid for.
Barclay says applicants must be “sporty, adaptable, fun and energetic”, and “prepared to run random errands”. They must also be flexible.
It’s a gruelling interview process. The candidate will usually be interviewed by Barclay – or his PA, then the family’s PA. Then they get a grilling from the parents, and, finally, the kids must approve. Summer and Christmas are the best times to apply.