Have you ever felt that you were being ignored by the one you love? Have you ever wondered what life would be like if you could step outside of your relationship and explore other options? This may not even involve actual cheating. Sometimes flirting on the Web is more than enough to satisfy your strange but very real craving. Chances are good that you’ve probably come across sites, such as FlirtFair and many others, on the web that advertise adult hookups and other related activities. Do you ever wonder what really goes on there?
The Easiest Way To Satisfy A Fantasy Craving Is To Explore It
Related to the above question is the additional query: Have you ever had a fantasy so hot that you hesitated to even share it with others? “Others” in this case would even include your best friends and your significant other. It might be a guilty pleasure that would make you blush if anyone ever found out that you had thought about it. Or it might be one that would make your partner very angry if they found out. Why should this be the case?
Because it might be that your fantasy involved other people besides them. It’s not as uncommon as you think – in fact, it’s dead common – for people to fantasize sexually about hooking up with a partner who is most certainly not the one they spend most of their time with in real life. Is there really anything immoral about this? If so, then the vast majority of mankind would stand convicted of such offenses, because we all do it. It’s just that, in the age of the Internet, it’s so much easier to talk about it – and possibly explore it.
Is There Something Wrong With Using The Internet To Explore Fantasies?
Is there really anything wrong with talking about these fantasies? Beyond that, is there anything intrinsically immoral (it certainly isn’t illegal!) about using the Internet as a venue to discuss them? And now we come to the crux of the matter: Is it pushing the line of decency to use a website as a place to find other people who may enjoy talking about these things? These are all questions that, weighty as they are, may even pale in comparison to the ultimate taboo: Using the Internet to hook up with others who most certainly aren’t your significant other or fiancee or spouse!
You Log On To An Adult Site…What Happens Next?
Suppose for a moment that you take the initiative to actually create a user name and profile on an adult flirting or dating site. What comes next? Will your spouse find out and immediately file for divorce? Will your parents disown you? Will the coppers come to bust you? The truth is that none of these scenarios are really very likely. If it’s all just talk, then talking about sex is as common as talking about the weather outside.
So why are there still so many hangups about openly discussing such matters? We all do it at parties, especially when members of the opposite sex aren’t around. Everyone talks about the hot guy or girl at their job whom they would love to give it to or receive it from. Why is chatting about such things on a website so very different? There’s no easy answer to this question, but one thing is certain: More and more people are doing just that. More to the point, they are enjoying the hell out of doing it.
Are You A Bad Person If You Use The Internet To Hook Up?
Here’s a news flash for you: If you’ve ever dated a person whom you met first on the Internet, then guess what? You have used the Internet to hook up. Sure, you may argue that meeting a friend of a friend on Facebook isn’t quite the same as meeting someone on a flirting site. But are you really so pedantic and hypocritical that you don’t get the essential similarity? So why is it such a big deal to use these sites to meet interesting people to have fun chats with? The principle is essentially the same.
Perhaps the most important thing to take away from this essay is: Don’t judge what you don’t know. If you’ve never used a flirt or hookup site to have fun with, why not try it for yourself? You won’t go to jail or to Hell just by logging on and looking around. And who knows? You might just find someone to talk with about a certain subject that’s been getting you all hot under the collar lately. Maybe you finally lay it to rest – or maybe it can be the start of a sweet new friendship!